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Sexuality and Making Love Worldwide – 6

December 11th, 2009

Hasan A. Yahya, Ph.D

This article describes religious and  cultural sexual practices:  No government or official law on human rights are respected or secured in love cases leads to adultery in the Arab and Muslim world. So it might be excusable for ancient people to act like as they did. Love is blind as they say, but temptations to commit adultery is punishable. Old stories of Romeo and Juliet, Antar and Abla, Qays and Laila, and Jamil and Buthainah, many centuries old stories of history these days.  In the modern world with a high tech civilization, and interaction through media and education and cultural diffusion, it is not excusable to do it according to Arabic and Islamic ethics. A Saudi man do not allow women to have a freedom, negates cultural norms. Some women’s activists call for women in Saudi Arabia the right to drive their cars alone. What do you expect from a culture respects honor and perceive women as weak persons, need always men or familial protection? In Saudi Arabia, if a woman is not allowed to drive, or to vote, or to go outside alone, or to talk with unrelated men and etc, it does not mean that they prohibit them from loving each other, no one can stand in the face of love, because love is incited by God, and God makes people love each other, but when love became illegal love, negate cultural norms, then killing  people who love each other and committed adultery is suitable punishment culturally. There is no dating as Americans way of life. These adultery activities are prohibited in both Arab and Islamic countries. Saudi like to watch the execution of such penalties, they often come from far away just for seeing these acts. In these days, westerners do not admit such acts and describe them as just uneducated savages actions against human rights, but not modern people who call themselves Muslims  their families appreciate such acts.(331 words). www.hasanyahya.com

Hasan Yahya is an American Arab scholar, and a professor of sociology. He published 27 plus books and 212 plus articles on sociology, sexuality, psychology, politics, poetry, IQ Test Measurement and short stories in both Arabic and English. His articles may be found on articlesbase.com, Face book and other internet sites. His books published on Amazon titled: Crescentology: Theory C. of Conflict Management, Lawlaki: Lawlaki Poetry Diwan, 2000 Bayt Min al-Shi’r al-Arabi (from Emri’ al-Qays to Nizar Qabbani) ,Zawjatu al-Sultan, and al-Zawaj fil-‘Alam, all in Arabic.(On Amazon, 2009). His recent activities reflects his talents and knowledge on youtube’s Dr.Yahya Channel TV videos under the name of askdryahya.
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Sexuality and Making Love Worldwide – 11

December 10th, 2009

Hasan A. Yahya, Ph.D

This article is about parenting In the Arab and Muslim world, also related to sexuality.: In the Parenting an Arab and Muslim girl, parents give girls everything they wanted. They treat them sincerely and kindly. And when they were at the right age, the family chose a good husband for her, in what called in sociology, arranged marriages which is popular in the Arab and Muslim world. a good man, the family knows.  But some young ladies had ideas of their own. Therefore, they rebelled. They have choices: one is to refuse the proposed person. And deny fulfilling the marriage contract. Or for other reason such as going to complete their education at the university in local or far communities. May be other countries differ from the place of origin. If they are married, they usually did not love the selected  husband who was forced on her at the beginning. In Saudi Arabia, and many other Muslim and Arab countries,  woman still should not be allowed to raise her voice. They call it “Awrah”, a “shameful act” by women to raise their voice when men are present.  A woman is considered of a “lower, inferior sex” by choice, some say, because the Islamic culture promotes certain ethics in terms of women behavior. That she should not act like a man. The man is the master, or the over hand in marriage or in the family, a young brother can control his elder sister, this is common in Arab and Muslim countries. As she’s the wife, not the slave as some people like to say. Soon after a woman  marriage she usually live in the extended family, but these days the newly married couple have their own house. They may leave to other community as we said,  and fell in love in that different environment.  No girl or boy may fall in love “deliberately.”  Even a veiled woman, but women usually conceal their love from family. It is sometimes told to close female friends.  Lover in Arab and Muslim world become in danger position, some people consider love as illegal and forbidden. But lovers may die for their love. They may sacrifice themselves for the lover safety. (378 words) www.hasanyahya.com

 

Hasan Yahya is an American Arab scholar, and a professor of sociology. He published 27 plus books and 212 plus articles on sociology, sexuality, psychology, politics, poetry, IQ Test Measurement and short stories in both Arabic and English. His articles may be found on articlesbase.com, Face book and other internet sites. His books published on Amazon titled: Crescentology: Theory C. of Conflict Management, Lawlaki: Lawlaki Poetry Diwan, 2000 Bayt Min al-Shi’r al-Arabi (from Emri’ al-Qays to Nizar Qabbani) ,Zawjatu al-Sultan, and al-Zawaj fil-‘Alam, all in Arabic.(On Amazon, 2009). His recent activities reflects his talents and knowledge on youtube’s Dr.Yahya Channel TV videos under the name of askdryahya.
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Sexuality and First Time Dating – One

December 10th, 2009

Hasan A. Yahya, Ph.Ds

What questions pup up in your mind: What should I do in the first Date? In psychology we learn that, if you were a boy or girl then your answer will vary drastically, girls look inside to themselves , boys, however, look for outside themselves for answers.

Psychology tells us that certain variables determine the answers. For example, age, sex, race, religion, marital status, education, wealth, etc., While most first dates come early in high schools, we will answer the question through that age, which is roughly between 12 and 18. In America, teenagers learn about dating from friends, media,  and by reading about it. They have answers according to their knowledge. But really, what should I wear, pups-up in the minds of girls, in other words, how I look, or should I look in the first date? But this is not the proper question to ask. A self control, and self conscious girl, may ask other questions about perfume, dress, but what you need to ask in the first date is: Do I know my partner?

This question makes you prepare certain question to know more about the guy or girl. Statement  like: tell me about your self, what you like, and how do feel? Something like that. The purpose of course is to know more about your partner, but if you know him for more than three months, and you know him very well, because he’s or she’s in you school, or your class, or your neighborhood, your questions should be about something else. For example, how generous I should be, how much permissive I should be dealing with certain questions about sex? About your secrets, which you want to keep for yourself. You don’t know whether the date will be successful or not. 

Suppose talking about oneself in the first date, you have to be a good listener, and alert to follow up with questions about certain words, or feelings. Some interesting points, like, how is that? Why do you think so? Or I like this, say it again. Laugh on his jokes, but not to show that you are making laughs out of contest. 

A boy or a girl likes to show kindness, concern to please each other, and both will be conservatives in their behavior, especially showing their bad qualities. So advice to both girls and boys in their first date can be suggested here:

The question which is often not asked from girls is, what are the expectations or the consequences of the first time dating? The answer for this question will be the subject of next article.  Happy dating time, folks. (642 words) www.hasanyahya.com

Hasan Yahya is an American Arab scholar, and a professor of sociology. He published 27 plus books and 200 plus articles on sociology, psychology, politics, poetry, IQ Test Measurement and short stories in both Arabic and English. His articles may be found on articlesbase.com, Face book and other internet sites. His recent book published on Amazon titled: Legal Adultery: Sexuality & World Cultures. (English) and Lawlaki: Lawlaki Poetry Diwan, Tales and articles, 2000 Bayt Min al-Shi’r al-Arabi. (Arabic). His recent book: Legal Adultery: Sexuality & World Cultures-English (On amazon- 2009). His recent activities reflects his talents and knowledge on youtube’s Dr. Yahya TV under the name of askdryahya. Dr. Yahya resides in Michigan, USA.
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Political Interview with Professor Hasan A. Yahya

November 19th, 2009

Political Interview with Professor Hasan Yahya, an American Arab Scholar

by: Tina Garfield

Posted by: Hasan A. Yahya, Ph.Ds

(with permission from wfol.tv,  Malaysia, and Tina Garfield.)

 Professor Hasan Yahya is an American Arab as he likes to be called, not otherwise. His articles recently criticizes the Congress 768 resolution to reject Goldstone Report, and joined a group to stand against the resolution.  At his home, in his armchair, he received me with a smile. While I prepared a list of questions, the interview answers brought questions not included in the questions list.   

 TINA: Professor Yahya, Why are you criticizing the American Congress in your recent articles? While the Congress represent the American public legally?

 PROF. YAHYA: The second part of your question deserves attention, the old ways of the congress dealing with foreign policies is no more securing our citizens abroad, arm forces or civilians. And to represent the public, justice is ignored. My criticism of the old mentalities of American Congress carried out by the previous administration. It was misleading then, and still misleading by lobbyists on the white Hill rather than taking a sound measurement of judgment.

TINA: Is there any specific decisions made by the Congress, you may refer to?

PROF. YAHYA: Well! I think you are aware of 768 Resolution, it is in conformity with pervious decisions made by the previous administration concerning foreign policy which created hate and hostilities around the world.

TINA: Standing with Israel is not new in U.S foreign policy, it is almost all politicians support Israel.

PROF. YAHYA: Well, nothing wrong to support Israel, but what about the consequences of such decisions on American citizens? And what is the role of the President if the Congress stands against his well for change?

TINA: I make the questions, remember. And how do you think the President to act? We all know that these decisions are studied carefully by several committees before going to the House.

PROF. YAHYA: That’s true, I think the period was not enough to take that decision. And the consequences of the resolution will have negative implications on foreign policy of the U.S.

TINA: You mean, the Arab and Muslim nations?

PROF. YAHYA: In some parts, yes. The whole resolution negates what President Obama gave in his speeches in Cairo and Turkey. Speeches like that needs confirmation of something new. I think the Congress is trying to embarrass the President.

TINA: How? What do you mean?

PROF. YAHYA: It’s obvious. Standing blindly behind Occupation forces against occupied people in the Palestinian case- or Gaza Conflict, and supporting it in the UN,  does not reflect the new Administration policies. I mean, the President views for change. Otherwise, everything remains the same concerning foreign policies.

TINA: You mean the old administration.

PROF. YAHYA: You are close to be right.

TINA: What do you see of conformity in the Congress resolution to the old Administration?

PROF. YAHYA: Let me take you 19 years back, you -may be- were in the elementary school, Bush the father, was farsighted than his son, while he broke a great slogan for American education made by specialists in the 1950s and 1960s, which dealing with problems in-violently in schools, he broke that slogan by attacking Iraq (after a long friendship) where violent policies destroyed in-violent behavior in our schools. And created a new approach of using fests, instead of arguing by words. Such violation needed double efforts from educators to curb the new situation.

TINA: How then, he was farsighted than his son?

PROF. YAHYA: He was farsighted when he stopped from destroying Saddam Hussein. It was a relief for Arabs and Muslims in that time. But Bush the son was inexperienced with world affairs and created several mistakes to invade Iraq and Afghanistan, unfortunately, the American public followed its government miscalculation and misestimating of what happened in 9/11.

TINA: You mean, it was a mistake to get rid of Saddam?

PROF. YAHYA: It is no use of talking about that now. Saddam is underground. It is no more secret that Saddam was used a  propaganda to get rid of any force capable to say no for America. Which might be acceptable while U.S.A was the only power leading the world after the collapse of the Soviet Union. But what was the consequences of Iraq war. Is dividing Iraq as we see today into Shi’a, Kurds, and Sunnis helps democracy in the country or reduces the daily violence. Saddam may killed many, but numbers is much smaller than the victims of ousting him. Now the worse thing for America is to withdraw without respect and dignity. It was easy to get into war, but it is I believe more difficult to end it, while America still think of old ways in politics.

TINA:  What do you mean?

PROF. YAHYA: The world now is not the same as 10 years ago. And President Barack Obama is not Mr. Bush the son. I think there should be ways to deal with conflicts worldwide, taking into consideration the union between Russia and  Chine through their Shanghai Cooperation Organization (the SCO). In terms of Russia better relations with the US since September 11, While the US has taken a number of steps toward Russia that appear unfriendly.

TINA: What you mean? Give us an example!

PROF. YAHYA: Well, First of all, I think that Russian-American relations are much better now than they were ten years back. an example, the doctrine of using nuclear weapons, which lists Russia as one of the potential targets. Second: The two countries now have many things in common. Of course, the US pursues global interests. But Russia, as a result of its geographic position, has its own interests in Europe, the Near East, Central Asia, and South Asia – that is, many points of interest that are important to the Americans as well. And I must say that in the majority of cases, the interests of two countries coincide. Even though, not everything and all the time, but keep in mind that US interests sometimes diverge with those of its closest allies, especially the NATO and Europe.

 TINA: What the President can do in the face of the Congress?

PROF. YAHYA: (Laughs), Well, you know that each situation is different, and we must take the interests of America as well as others into account. I think each political situation is absolutely unique, and its resolution depends on many factors. I understand that my answer might not be  satisfying, but there is no way to answer otherwise. You know, the President knows what to do. His advisors everywhere.

TINA: This question about  Afghanistan! You wrote: “There are news of more Taliban  bases, and sophistication, facing NATO forces, as well as American forces. How do you see Afghanistan?

PROF. YAHYA: You mean withdrawal of American forces? If so, then you know that Afghanistan is formerly known as a large drug manufacturer.  I know that the situation in Afghanistan is very difficult. It’s difficult to say when the American troops will continue their actions. But I think that the Obama Administration understands that cooperation with others (for example Russia and Europe)  is important from many points of view. It is difficult to guess, when the military presence will end. In fact some, Army Generals  give the impression for more forces, which may reduce the probability of guessing to withdraw in a short time.

TINA: Thank you! Any final word you want to add!

PROF. YAHYA: Thank you,  Tina,  from my standpoint, justice have to be our measure, and taking sides may be was beneficial in old times, but surely, it is not beneficial to the United States today. There should be a solution, but such solution need to commensurate with world changes to understand, and appreciate.   

TINA: Thank you, Professor Yahya for your time and ideas.  (1312 words)

Hasan A. Yahya is an American Arab scholar, and a professor of sociology. Has a 2 Ph.d degrees from MSU. He published 19 Arabic and 8 English books and 200 plus articles on sociology, psychology, politics, poetry, and short stories in both Arabic and English. His articles may be found on articlesbase.com, Face book, wfol.tv and other internet sites. His recent activities reflects his talents and knowledge on youtube’s DryahyaTV.com Dr. Yahya resides in Michigan, USA. www.dryahyatv.com

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