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Education and Motivation

December 31st, 2009

The great words of “The Three Character Scriptures” once said: “If jade is not shaped, it will not become a tool; if man dos not learn, he will not know the meaning [of life].”  For this very reason education has become an important factor in any culture and has developed into many different forms over the years.

First and most importantly, in order to discover the most effective way to promote education, we must realize what education really is and why it is important.  From my perspective, education is a series of understandings, being able to comprehend facts and information.  This will lead to the formation of personal opinions and new methods, which will contribute onto the general collection of knowledge.

This forever building on the foundation of previous discoveries is what separates mental exploration from physical or manual labor.  Manual labor only produces limited and temporary results, but the accumulation of knowledge through education can give you tools which can be used in many forms of application.  In other words, work and physical labor will give a man a fish and he will be fed for a day, but learning and education can equip a man with skills of how to fish.  Understanding “how to fish” is both a major benefit for the man himself and the rest of society.

Learning can allow us to become independent thinkers and have the chance to dig deeper in personal fields of interest; it can also further the overall development of man.  If we do not equip ourselves with the accumulated knowledge of the past, then all of our pursuits will be like running on a treadmill; no real progress will be made.

After establishing the importance of education, the next question would be how we should approach it.  But first, I would like to introduce (what I believe to be) the two major roots to human actions.

There are two main cases when we perform any action: we are pushed to do something by an outside force, or we are pulled towards it by a driving force within ourselves.   “X” is the goal  “O” is ourselves “–>” is a force

-> O X  this is the external force(parents, teachers) exerting their superior power “for our own good”

O -> X  this is the internal force of curiousity driving us toward our goal

When parents plan class after class for their children on the weekend, they are pushing their children towards education.  However, when we are drawn by curiosity to learning; that is the internal pull. In life, there are two types of rewards: the immediate and the eventual. When kids fail to see any immediate rewards from education, they rebel against it. As a result, many parents and teachers push them even harder, causing them to dislike education even more.  This eventually turns into an endless cycle which ends up frustrating everyone, and the kid does not make any progress. In less extreme cases, kids often learn to satisfy their parents’ requests, and so rely on others to encourage them and motivate them.  But when the time comes for them to make their own decisions, they discover they have no interest in learning and turn off the path. From these examples we can conclude that too much “push” from outer forces doesn’t benefit the student.

There is a Chinese saying, “Interest is the best teacher”.  So the best way to promote education would be for children to become interested in learning.  But waiting for children to find their own interest in education is too time-consuming, and children tend to veer off and find more enjoyable activities.  I believe parents should push their children to explore many different fields of activity and learning, to stimulate their curiosity, and to introduce the importance of education, but to allow them to motivate themselves afterward.

As an essential shaper of the future, education and its effective application is a highly discussed theme, so pitfalls and detours along the way are natural problems we must face.  For example, in recent years, education has been reduced to short-term rewards in the form of scores and points.

The grading system found in schools can show what happens when we focus on the details and not on the long run. When we try to find the most accurate grading system, we forget why comparing and contrasting are important in the first place.

I believe the creator of exams originally meant for them to be a useful tool to assess students on whether or not they have understood the material. But nowadays learning has regressed into a pursuit of points and marks; people have made quantitative results to be the sole purpose of education.  Parents and teachers encourage students to labor for a few more points, and many schools may list the students with the highest scores.

Although exams can be useful in many ways, scores and numbers can create a hallucinating effect on students.  Scores can’t really reflect everything about a student and how hard they work, and obsessing with a point or two is not necessary.  I believe time can be spent in much better ways.  After all, in the future, I don’t think any of us will remember what grades we received.

. From this example we can see that it is often easy to forget why learning is important in the first place and focus on what we can only see.

Education and ways of learning has played a major role in human history.   It sets the stage for future generations, so it can greatly influence how we will live tomorrow.  For this reason it has become an important subject in many parts of the world.  If we can make decisions concerning educational systems with learning’s original goal in mind, I believe the world would be better off relying on personal interest to spark exploration.  Like Diogenes Laertius once said, “The foundation of every state is the education of its youth.”

I am a currently a junior- high student enrolled in Beijing. I have lived and have had some experience in both American and Chinese environments, and would deeply appreciate suggestions and constructive criticism.
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Here’s Why You Need to Talk to Your Teen About Drugs NOW!

November 27th, 2009

Like talking about sex, having a conversation with your teen about drugs and alcohol can be, well, a bit uncomfortable. Sure, you may hear about how you should talk to your children about illegal substances whenever you get the opportunity – but having the conversation itself can be so awkward that many parents choose not to do it, not to mention that many parents feel too uneducated about booze and drugs to even talk about it! In fact, a recent study conducted by Action on Addiction in the United Kingdom found that over 40% of adults choose not to have these necessary conversations with their children and teenagers, but rather leave it up to the schools. If this sounds familiar, then take note: children and teenagers often want to hear about drugs and alcohol from the mouths of their own parents rather than their health class teacher.

But how exactly do you got about having this conversation without appearing uneducated – or worse – hypocritical? Here’s what you need to know in order to best educate your kids about the dangers of drugs and underage drinking as effectively as possible.

Give Them Warnings That Are Tangible. it’s no secret that most tweens and teens think that they’re invincible. If you warn your child that drinking and doing drugs will kill them – even though your teen is surrounded by people who have not died from alcohol or certain drugs – they won’t get as scared as you’d like them to. However, if you tell your child that drinking and doing drugs can cost them thousands of dollars a year – not to mention make them smell horrible – and you’ll see a change in their behavior quickly!

Try To Relate To Your Teen. Tweens and teens have an uncanny ability to see straight through any fibs; therefore, if you are staunchly against drinking and drugs, even though you may have experimented yourself as a teen, you’ll just end up confusing your child. Be honest with your child – if you did drugs as a teen, tell them why you did it, and why you chose to stop it. Your teen will appreciate your honesty, as opposed to labeling you as a “hypocrite”.

Find Out Who His Or Her Friends Are. When it comes to raising teens, knowledge is half the battle – that’s why you should make the effort to become familiar with you teenager’s friends. You don’t have to know everything about them; rather, you want to do so in order to determine if they’re positive influences on your teen. It won’t take long for you to get a feel for your teen’s friends’ personalities – if someone rubs you the wrong way, try to limit how much time your teen spends with him or her.

Be Supportive. If you’ve discovered that your child drank at a party or took drugs, your first reaction may be to punish them. While discipline is completely necessary, it’s important for your teen to know that you’ll love them no matter what – this will teach your child that it’s okay to approach you about their upsetting behavior rather than keep it secret.

Above all, accept the fact that you won’t be around to monitor your child’s activities for every hour of every day – no matter how tempted you may be! Instead, trust that you instilled proper values within your children that will help them to make the right decisions when it counts, therefore setting them up for future success long into adulthood.

Gareth Williams has been an expert in the field of parenting for well over 25 years and is the author of the highly acclaimed ebook ‘Harmony at Home – A Parent’s Companion’. If you’re interested in learning the close guarded secrets of the ‘Whole Child Aprroach’ which will sky rocket your parenting skills to unparalled success in record time then please visit-http://www.instantparentsuccess.com
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Educating your Child in a Private School-is it a Good Idea?

November 27th, 2009

Sending your child to a private school is an important, and possibly life-changing decision to be weighed carefully. Is it a good idea to uproot the child, put him or her in a new school, leaving their former school friends behind? In my opinion, from one who has been there myself, definitely, yes.

My introduction to private school started at the age of 12, when I entered 7th grade at an all-girls’ private prep school called Laurel in Shaker Heights, Ohio. It was scary at first to leave the familiarity of friends from my former school, a large, public school in another town. Every day I had to be driven by my parents to my new school, which was nearly an hour from our home. Plus, a new school meant making new friends in new surroundings, pretty terrifying for a shy girl like I was. Kids can be a bit tough on the new kid, I got teased a little at first. And, to top it all off, I had to wear a uniform. No more jeans, t-shirts and casual attire. I thought it was the end of the world at first.

Truth of the matter was, it changed my life for the better in infinite ways. First, the classes were smaller, meaning each student would receive more attention from the teacher. This was good for learning, but bad for slacking off. Oh yes, we Laurel girls were masters of girlish pranks and silliness at times, but we knew we had to behave ourselves and saved the fun for study hall. It meant getting down to work, being a more disciplined student. If I had trouble with a subject, it meant summer school if my grades weren’t up to par. Only once did I need to go to summer school, the following summer after 7th grade. It was actually a pleasant experience but a great motivator not to return there the next year.

It became clear to me even as a teen that wearing a uniform every day was a break from worrying about what to wear every day. It gave me the opportunity to focus on other things than fashion. The uniforms were comfortable, tasteful and nobody made fun of anyone else’s fashion sense , since we all wore them. We had the choice between blue tartan, solid green or light green herringbone; along with either white, blue or yellow oxford shirts (long or short sleeved). I became a master at shirt ironing, since it needed to be done every morning. So, we did have a little control over what we wore, just a little. If we wanted dress more trendy or fashionably, we saved it for after school get-togethers with friends.

Also, my new school had (and still has) a great area for art, which was my main focus as a kid, in being an artist. Laurel School had a whole art floor! We were allowed to pursue all types of art that previously, I’d only read about such as enameling, Raku pottery-making, wheel-thrown pottery, color theory, and more. Plus, we were encouraged to be creative in other arts such as dance, theater and music as well. They had a summer theater camp, which I participated in. There wasn’t a band (I’d been in the school band in public school, and missed being able to play an instrument) but there was glee club, and choir. I got into both, and enjoyed those thoroughly. My new school had a true appreciation for the arts that has led me to carry on my interest in all venues artistic throughout my adult life.

Being painfully shy, in private school, there was no way to blend into the wallpaper. They drew me out, whether I liked it or not. It was good for me, because that shy child is not a shy adult at all. The teachers were caring and supportive, welcoming contact with their students. It was lovely to be invited to my teacher’s Christmas party one year, and being shy, she had me stick with her to feel more comfortable. Mrs. Priscilla Ford was my algebra teacher, and totally a class act. She tutored me in math, which was my nemesis in school, and was a painter on the side, so she related to my artistic endeavors. My art teacher, Mrs. Helen Biehle, too, was a friend as well as teacher. It was wonderful to have such powerful, wholesome influences during turbulent teen years. I sorely needed confidence, and as an adult owe my lack of fear of public speaking to my former Speech teacher, Mrs. Schenk. Four years of having to get up on stage and sweat profusely while giving every kind of speech imaginable can really force the shyness out of nearly everyone.

All in all, private education is a wonderful experience, a quality protection from a busy, crazy world. It was a sheltered existence but that is good during the formative years of a young, impressionable child. There were no boys for us girls to flirt with, and clear boundaries to what was accepted of us both socially and academically. It taught us all manners, and respect for not only each other but the world around us. We took trips nearly every year to educational and interesting places such as Toronto and Washington D.C. Our chaperones sure did have their hands full watching over a bunch of excited girls, but we always had an appropriately good time, wherever we went (no major mishaps or craziness).

Even in private school, we were able to have prom, formal or informal dances of different kinds, and we had friends who were from other schools. Being in a private school doesn’t mean you no longer have your former school friends. I kept in touch with some of my old friends, and gained new ones, too. We worked hard, but had fun, too. After school, I spent most of my time with my horse, boarded at a local stable. I saw my friends there, and my horse. Then, went home and studied hard. It was a balance of hard work and fun, in a structured way.

Leaving the security of my small school (our graduating class had 54 girls in it) was a bit of a culture shock. I went to a large university, Rochester Institute of Technology, that was predominately made up of young men. It took a little getting used to, but I felt at no disadvantage. It was an adventure to try something new. Laurel School had accomplished its objective: to turn out a confident, disciplined young lady who wanted to further her education. I wholeheartedly reccommend private schools, because it always helps to have guidance as we grow as children and young adults. It helps to shape our futures, and promote confidence. Plus, colleges and universities love well-rounded applicants from schools they receive students from every year. Our full-time college counselor at Laurel worked hard to educate us on what colleges were out there to pursue. We even had a class trip to a few Ohio colleges and universities, from Ohio State to Denison, and others. It was fun seeing the different styles of colleges and learning which best suited our individual needs.

For anyone considering a private education for their children, go visit the campus, take a tour and read the different biographies about the staff. Talk to teachers and students. Look at different schools, as each has their own feel to it. Explore financing options with the financial counselor, there are usually scholarships for those in need. By giving your child a quality education, this sets him or her up for a bright future. Public schools are great, too, it all depends on your child’s individual needs. Where would he or she best be happiest and prosper? Smaller class sizes will allow the teachers to help bring a shy child out of his or her shell. It did for me. It’s worth the risk, if you take it.

Carolyn McFann is a scientific and nature illustrator, who owns Two Purring Cats Design Studio. Educated at the Rochester Institute of Technology in New York, Carolyn is a seasoned, well-traveled artist and photographer. She has lived and worked in Cancun, Mexico for two years, among other interesting professional assignments in other countries. Clients include nature parks, museums, scientists, corporations and private owners. Her focus is on realistic, natural artwork and illustration through her agent and her website. She has been the subject of tv interviews, articles for newspapers and other popular media venues. Her art studio website can be seen at: http://www.cafepress.com/twopurringcats.
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How Successful Will Junk Food Ban in Schools Be? – by Sungjin Park

November 19th, 2009

With a new school year comes a new policy that will be enforced starting this year. There will be a school junk food ban that would discontinue the distribution and sale of junk food at school. As of last year, schools already started to change some of the food sold in the cafeteria. Granola bars were sold, fried chips replaced with baked chips, soda machines with fruit juice and other healthy food options were made available. Surveys were also conducted throughout the year to evaluate healthy food choices that the students would most like to see.

There has obviously been a lot of controversy over the past few months as to whether the junk food ban would be successful or not, but finally, we will see the effectiveness of the policy once the schools re-open. In my view, it definitely won’t hurt. Though some argue that the ban will be rendered useless as kids bring junk food from home and some go off campus to eat, none argue that the junk food ban would be harmful to the students. After all, with 1 in 5 students being obese today compared to 1 in 20 in the 1970s, something must clearly be done. However, the food ban might cause a few problems for the school cafeteria and moreover for many of the clubs who bank on fundraisers.

Not only that, many clubs who have in the past depended on candy fundraisers and bake sales for their income have already had to start thinking of new ideas to make money. And it’s not going to be easy for them. Candy sales were definitely one of the most profitable fundraisers around and there aren’t many people that would be willing to pay a dollar for fruit bars and orange juice as opposed to Reese’s or Coke. A seemingly beneficial ban really is painful for these fundraisers.

Nevertheless, the outlook is bright. The alternative menu items which include pasta, and deep pan pizza are not horribly disgusting (though most of us found the option of guava juice a bit strange). I feel most kids will continue buying food from the cafeteria either because the parents are too busy or lazy to make lunch for their children, or the kids are just too lazy to drive themselves to some other restaurant. For more articles on Cupertino and other high schools, visit Zirana

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Sex Education

November 18th, 2009

Teens face difficult choices daily that can affect them for the rest of their lives. One of the major decisions they will make is whether or not to be sexually active. In a culture where premarital sex is accepted and normalized and where most media messages present everything counter to abstinence, many adolescents are choosing to be sexually active, some at very young ages. In the United States, 45.6 percent of high school students (1) and 79.5 percent of college students ages 18-24 (2) have had sex. The decision to have sex at such a young age can cause life long effects on their physical, emotional and psychological health. Thus, it is critical for adults and educators to realistically address teen sexuality and to recognize the many factors, including media, culture and peer influences that contribute to this decision.
There are many influences that affect adolescents’ attitudes on sex such as sex related media. Adolescents in the US spend an average of 5-6 hours a day with some form of media that shows frequent, glamorized, and consequence-free sexual activity. (3) Recent studies also show that 12-14 year olds exposed to the most sexual content in movies, music, magazines, and on television were 2.2 times as likely to have sexual intercourse than peers that experienced less sexual content in media exposure. (4) When asked why they had sex for the first time, 13 percent of men ages 13-18 state it was because of pressure from their friends and eight percent of women this age state it was because of pressure from a partner. (5)
Teens are vulnerable to these influences and a host of others. They need to be educated on what is influencing them, the inaccuracies of certain messages (such as: “sex is just fun,” “sex has no consequences,” and “sex makes you popular”), and how a decision like this can have negative and lasting consequences to their lives, now and in the future. With this knowledge comes the ability to challenge the “norm” and make more positive and healthy decisions. This message needs to come from those they respect and trust, namely educators and parents.
The content of these educational messages needs to be one that will influence them and leave a lasting impression, especially as they face situations where a decision is needed; abstinence needs to become a solid option. In order to have influence, the message needs to be delivered in a way that they will, #1 listen to and #2 remember.
I believe one of the most effective ways is by engaging teenagers with a program that is entertaining to them, one that will get and keep their attention, one that has enough of an emotional connection to cause them to really think about what situations they will face and to prepare them to respond to these situations. One that assists them in making positive decisions in future situations and that teaches them to implement actions that will prevent them from potential negative consequences and future pain. “What’s Love Got to Do With It” is one tool that can aid in the teaching process. It was developed based on the above concepts and is specifically developed to educate and influence in the ways described above. It is engaging, entertaining, and impacting. This interactive video (DVD) program explores the various influences on teen sexual behavior, primarily media and peer influences. It educates youth on the consequences of choosing to be sexually active-not just potential physical consequences (pregnancy & STD’s)-but also the emotional and psychological impact. This program encourages adolescents to think seriously about choosing to be sexually active and why the best decision, with the least risks and consequences, is abstinence. It provides valuable information on how to handle pressure and how to say “no.”" Additionally, teens will learn what defines sexual assault and how to prevent becoming a victim or a perpetrator. A study guide is included to assist in discussion following the DVD to further drive home the message.
References
1. Grunbaum JA etal. Youth risk behavior surveillance, United States, 2001. MMWR CDC Survelliance Summaries 2002
2. Division of Adolescent & School Health, CDC. Youth risk behavior surveillance, national college health risk behavior survey, United States, 1995. MMWR CDC Surveillance Summaries 1997;46(SS-6):1-56.
3. Bloomberg.com
4. Kinsman SB, Romer D, et al. Early sexual initiation: the role of peer norms. Pediatrics 1998; 102:1185-1192.
5. Kaiser Family Foundation & YM magazine. “National Survey of Teens: Teens Talk about Dating, Intimacy and Their Sexual Experiences.” Melo Park, CA: The Foundation, 1998.

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